One of the most common questions I receive from guys, especially single ones, is; how to get girls to like you. This is often followed by their search for answers in magazines, newspapers, websites, religious books and all manner of resources.
Getting a girl to like you is a simple art that anyone can master with some courage, time, effort and a little bit of luck. The following are three simple tips on how to get a girl to like you. Follow them and you will be out on a date in a couple of days or weeks.
1. Avoid the Friends Zone at all Cost
There is this common misconception that to have a girlfriend, you need to start out as a friend, then move on to become a couple. Well, there is no truth in that statement. Most guys who start out as friends usually end up being just that, friends. Nothing more.
You know that you are in the friend zone when the girl you want tells you personal stuff and stories about her boyfriend or previous boyfriends with a great deal of comfort and confidence.
That does not mean that you are getting closer to having her as a girlfriend. If anything, that means that you will always be her BFF. As soon as you start talking to a girl, be sure to send out signals about your real interest and intentions. If she is not interested, she will let you know, and all you have to do is move on.
2. How to Attract a Girl
Humans have five senses, but only three can only be used to get the attention of the girl of your dreams. These are: sight, smell and hearing.
To attract a girl, you need to be visually attractive. You need to upgrade your wardrobe and take your grooming to the next level. You need to look smart and stylish, yet decent.
You don’t need to break into a bank to pull this off. Dressing up for the occasion is also very important. If you are attending a sporting event, corporate meeting or going to church, you need to dress appropriately. However, you should never overdress.
Fragrances and colognes can work wonders in the dating game. While you may take a bath once or twice a day, that does not mean that you smell nice. You need to use a scented deodorant and a unique cologne to attract that girl you’ve had your eye on for some time. This may even spark a conversation as she may ask about your cologne.
The way you speak, your tone and the way you laugh should portray confidence and authority on the subject being discussed. This will do the trick if you’re dressing and fragrance fail to get her attention.
3. Sealing the Deal
If you follow the tips mentioned above, chances are that a few girls in a party, at the park, church, company meeting or in the streets will be attracted to you. If you notice a girl looking at you and smiling, you may have just hit the jackpot. What you need to do next is walk up to her confidently and say hello or something more creative and clever.
If she responds positively, be sure to ask her out and get her number before parting ways. Be sure to call her that evening to say goodnight and let her know that you are psyched about your date. Getting a girl to like you is as simple as that.