All guys struggle with doubt in a relationship, no matter how long they have been with their significant other. Sometimes, however, they have to ask pressing questions, like: “is my girlfriend cheating on me.” This is usually one of the hardest questions that men can ask themselves, I know, because I was there myself.
However, the truth is that there are a lot of ways that men can figure out if their girlfriends are cheating on them, or if they might have to worry in the future.
Here are just some of the signs that you should look out for, as they may be an indicator of some type of problem in your relationship.
1. Avoids Eye Contact When Asked About Going Out
This is one of the most obvious signs that something might be wrong. If you notice that your girlfriend does not look at you when she answers the question, or if she avoids the subject altogether, something might be wrong.
How long of a pause there is between her answers and what type of tone she takes can all make a difference in what to expect. If you feel like her answer is taking too much deliberation too, or if it sounds as though it was rehearsed, it probably is.
2. She is Nervous About You Joining Her
If your girlfriend used to love going out with you, but is now spending more and more time going out by herself or with her friends, chances are that something might be wrong. If she would have ordinarily welcome you joining her for a night, and is now nervous about it, something might be up too.
All it takes is a little bit of insight into her tone and you will be able to tell if you have anything that you need to worry about.
3. She is Taking Better Care of Her Looks
If you notice that she is suddenly and spontaneously taking an interest in her appearance again, there might be something that you need to ask her about.
If she used to do things like straighten her hair, or get manicures and pedicures for you, and is now doing them outside of your asking, chances are that she is doing it for somebody else. That is a problem that you will need to address immediately.
4. She Kisses Differently
This is something that you will be able to spot almost immediately. All women kiss differently, but they can also change the way they kiss in order to accommodate their lovers. This means that while all women have their own techniques, they will make a few changes when they are kissing you in order to adapt to your kissing techniques too.
If you notice that the pattern changes or your girlfriend is just kissing with less enthusiasm than before, there may be something wrong.
5. She is Nervous When You Look at Her Phone
Sometimes they will take additional steps to make sure that you find nothing suspicious on their phones, but they will always have that doubt in the back of their minds that they might have missed something. Grab her phone one day and see how she reacts. If she is quick to take it back out of your hands, she might be cheating on you.
6. She Wants Less Sex With You
This one is a bit of a no brainer. If you notice that your girlfriend is just no longer interested in sex with you anymore, it might mean that she’s cheating. At best, your relationship might need a little bit of fixing, but, at worse, she is just flat out worn out by her other guy.
You might notice that she feels different during sex as well, and there are any number of little personal signs that you can pick up on.
Trust Your Gut
If any or all of these things make sense to you when you consider whether or not your girlfriend is cheating, chances are that she actually is. Gut feelings exist for a reason, and there is a strong chance that the reason that you have yours is because you are right. All that you have to do is take a step back and think about how she might be acting differently in order to see the truth.