Knowing what things women want you to do in bed will definitely give you the upper hand! It is possible to please every woman if you know what they want – trust me! 😉
Get her “There” Before you go for Gold
Guys, she really wants you to give her an orgasm before intercourse happens. Your lady will appreciate it very much if you take the time to engage in foreplay before you jump into her pants. You will be her hero if you can give her an orgasm before penetration. The hotter she is, the hotter the sex will be!
I promise you that it is not all about the vagina to her. She actually wants you to pay attention to the areas that are not so obviously sexual like her tummy, neck and arms. Stroke her gently in other areas and you will be amazed how aroused she gets. Do yourself the favor and find out where all her “hot spots” are!
A Ten-Minute Session is not Going to cut it!
Women do not appreciate it at all if you orgasm within a few minutes, not at all! The fact of the matter is that guys tend to be goal-orientated creatures and once they have reached their goal, they generally do not want to go any further. This is bad news for the ladies because they cannot reach orgasm if you are not really into what you are doing.
You need to try and see it from her point of view – how would you feel if she got you close and just went to sleep? It is, believe it or not, the same for her.
Quickies are cool now and then, but you want to make your goal a minimum of 30 minutes if you want to keep your lady happy. An hour would be even better, but we cannot always do that, or can we? Read my other post with tips to last longer in bed.
Teasing is pleasing and your lady will not reject the idea. You want to make her so hot that she begs you to be inside her. That my friends, should be your goal!
Chicks Dig Oral Sex!
There are not many women around who do not love it when a guy goes down on her. If they really wanted fingers, they would most likely do it themselves and this is why they love it when you go there – they cannot possibly do that themselves.
If you can make your lady orgasm through oral sex, she will be much more obliging when it comes to satisfying you in the same way. It is called ‘give and take’ for a reason!
Silence is Just Weird
Girls hate it when guys are silent in bed. It makes them wonder what they are doing wrong so do not be afraid to verbalize how she makes you feel. So guys, get your scream on with your lady! Sex talk is good and girls do like it even though some may not come right out with it in the beginning.
Constant eye contact with your lady while you reach orgasm is one of the best things you will ever experience, especially if it happens for both of you at the same time. Make it happen buddy!
After Sex Attention
It is not advisable to just roll over and go to sleep after sex even if you are tired. You should hold her and make her feel special. The best thing to do is to hold her and fall asleep with her in your arms. This simple act will ensure that she wants more sex in the future.
Blowjobs and Girls
If you try to force your girl to go down on you, you will not succeed my friend! You want to get her to a point where she really wants your cock in her mouth. When you get that right, you will be very surprised at how willing she is next time.
Let her Teach You
Girls know what girls want and the best way for you to get to know what your lady wants is to simply listen to her! Ask her how she wants it and do her the favor. Believe me when I say that you will get a lot more of what you want this way!